Thanks for the further suggestions.....here is the situation at this point.
The battery is a top quality after market product...$230
The battery has been tested numerous times..always good
The tests are all being done with a good digital multi meter which is brand new...the readings all mimic the ones I got with my older meter.
Unless I have bought multiple "Bad" batteries that cannot be tested to show the problem..........combined with multiple "Bad" meters....including the ones at Subaru...I have to feel the problem is in the car somewhere and has yet to be discovered.
I appreciate all the good suggestions but they are all the things I already knew to do and have done.
The search continues.