I know I said I'd post a walk through, but a broken wrist kept me from doing the work myself. Regardless, I fixed the last two for just over $100. $25/handle, $25/ handle to be painted, cost of a case of beer to have you buddy put them on for you, priceless!
I looked and looked for handles that matched the color of my car. After 2 months I contacted a body shop to inquire about them repaint the handles for me. This was a random body shop, I had no connections for cheaper prices, and it was a flat $50 for two to be painted. I'm sure you'll eventually find the handles you're looking for, but my suggestion is to find the cheapest you can find and have them repainted. I know that's what I'll probably be doing again this winter!