again, do you all know her story ? if you put it here then expect a response. as to assuming she is just fat on and on is not what one should be laughing about.
again, i deal with disabled people and the city here making life easier for all. one of the first things i found was that first impressions were more than likely wrong. also take this as a piece of well intended advice. if you live long enough, you will be disabled.
my life went from walking to a wheelchair in a split second. yours can also.